1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Swallow your own saliva. It`s the only polite way.
12. Keep mainly to the front of the mouth, concentrating on her lips and tongue. You don`t need to mess with anything back there and gag her.
13. Don't bite. Just nibble. whatever you do, don't bite.
14. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
15. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
16. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, running your fingers lightly along her waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
17. Girls like it if you make a little noise. Sort of like mmmm .. softly and lightly. don`t overdo it.
18. Continue kissing.